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Pressures of Dating

Dating is full of stress. I'm pretty sure many people can remember the stress of their first date. This stress and pressure come when planning, asking, and going on a date. Here are just a few examples of things that affect people that are going to date someone, whether it's just one time or consistently. These things will pressure them as long as they are dating. Some of them are social pressure and others are things that we put on ourselves. The thing I have noted that caused a feeling of pressure was the feeling that they are way out of their league, so you can't ask them. We are always overthinking what is necessary for a date. Lastly, the pressure that you are going to possibly marry this person. These put pressure on dating and make it, so people are scared or unconfident about dating. People are always comparing things to other things, putting things into groups or categories as we go through our daily lives. We do this with people we know and people we just see pass

Words and Labels

  Is the right turn the right way to go right now? This world is full of words and each of them has many meanings. In one sentence there are ways to use right three times and each of them means a slightly different definition based on how it is seen in the context of the texts. That is how things are. We give labels and titles to things and try to describe those things with words. Sometimes we give a tile to something just because we feel that that is what best fits what we are looking at. Even Columbus made that mistake when he first landed here in the Native Americas. He called the natives India, and it has stuck all these years even though they have never even been to India. Why do labels and words hurt? They have so many definitions that we should be able to interpret them  in many ways but stick. They slowly try to define what people are, and we sometimes change to become what people call us. Labels change a person's culture and stick them in a box of what that word means. Why

Culture needing work

  People fight over this, and we draw lines in the sand because of this. At times, it allows us to connect and find some ground as well. This thing is so hard to fully understand because it changes as time goes on. The world has made art, music, and writing.  These things have been changed by this. We have people that try to understand forgotten ones and others that try to erase them. I'm talking about culture. We are all developing our own as we grow, and we take things from others as we do. Culture is good at times, but at other times they need to be changed or forgotten. In my life I have things that I do that I feel come from my mom and other times I do things like my dad and that was the culture I was raised in. One of the things that I learned from both of them is that life is hard and we need to always look for a way through it. This part of my family culture on the services would look like a good way to live, but there are things that I have seen from my parents that this p

Theories how can they shape the future.

  The world knows that one pulse one equals two, right? It is a simple truth that we all accept as how the world works, but is it always the answer that we are going to get? Things change and if people don't have the bigger picture, they could get a completely different answer. Just by changing one of the ones to be one foot and the other to be one inch, people will find that they can get several answers depending on what you are looking for.  That is the same with theories. Theories are made to try to understand the world. People create theories to have them be proven, and when they have become laws or fundamental truths, they must be tested. The two things I will talk about are how theories shouldn't shape how we see the world. Second, theories can become more or even help us to understand so much more about life.  Theories are made to guide us and show us different ways of looking at the world, not to tell us how the world is. The world is governed by rules, and we seek to u