what's a successful relationship

 Relationships are a complicated subject and seem to change for each couple. So when someone asks about what is a healthy relationship, you will get many answers to that question. Some base it on how successful the couple is, others say it is how much fun they have together, and lastly, is how intimate they are with each other. I feel that each of these things should be judged divinely at different stages of a relationship. This means that both members should have a say in what's best for their lives.

People see the photos and the vacations, and how fancy a gift may be for your significant other, but is that a true way to look at what success is for a relationship? In my opinion, successful relationships are ones where you can see how much they want the other to grow and reach the goals they set. A couple that is working together to reach for their dreams is always happier than one that is just having fun with each other. This is because once the hard times come, they will come. The ones that know they can depend on each other will last while the ones may fall apart. A successful relationship is one that will grow and build each other up even if you go your separate ways.

Next is what a couple can do together. You can still achieve goals in life while having fun, but in a relationship, you know how to have fun. What I mean by this is they go and try new things together, spending personal time doing romantic and exciting things. A good relationship is one where they can enjoy hobbies together and find things that they both enjoy, creating a memory that lasts a lifetime, not for others but for themselves.

Last is a couple that knows how to be intimate but is not driven by intercourse. Intercourse is a personal event and should be kept between a couple. Intimacy is a key part of any relationship. It is how people become closer when people are intimate. It doesn't mean they are intercourse. An intimate relationship is one where the two know each other. So, by that definition, a successful relationship that is intimate is between two people who know each other well. Well, they know what makes them tick and what makes them smile. These people are the ones that we feel can hurt us the most. So an intimate relationship is one that we are all scared to have.

It is easy to see why we have so many relationships where they are just a couple or a one-night stand, because we are all afraid of getting hurt. When we open ourselves up and have an intimate relationship, we now lower our walls and let someone new in. Once they have come into our lives, it is hard to let go. It hurts when they leave. It's also hard if they want to just be friends because they know us more than many other people. So it becomes harder to stay close to them because they have had that intimate relationship. Relationships can hurt. That is why we need to be careful with how intimate we become. A successful relationship is one that knows how to keep the intimacy under control, so if things don't work out, you can leave on good terms.

Relationships are always going to be complicated, they can hurt, and lead us out of our comfort zones. We are all trying to grow closer to others around us and a relationship is us trying to find the one we wish to be with. When we find someone that is willing to set boundaries, wishes to spend time with us doing new things, and helps us to reach our goals, then we have a good relationship. There are many other things that can be said about this. So, in what way do you see a successful relationship?

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